Tansformational Life Counseling

Welcome to Transformational Life Coaching!

If you've been wishing/ praying for an easy & effective way to change pesky, or seriously destructive, emotional problems, habits, or even PTSD's, welcome to Transformational Life Coaching!

Recent scientific discoveries have proven that "you" are not to blame for your emotional problems, because, your subconscious conditioning is not under the control of your conscious mind. In fact, it's vice versa. When emotional reactions arise, they are on automatic pilot response, i.e. out of your (conscious) control.

The good news is that we now have the technology to gently reprogram the root causes of any and all of your emotional problems, so you can truly, finally, Feel Free Fast!

Here is a testimonial from a Psychiatrist using one of the techniques in Transformational Life Coaching:

"I’ve probably taught 3 dozen patients, friends and family since our training in April. The results have been impressive and nothing short of amazing! I recurrently have folks tell me it’s hard to believe the change they experience using FFF. There isn’t one person I’ve taught who has not experienced at least some benefit, and quickly in nearly all cases. I can’t say that about any other treatment modality (psychotherapeutic or pharmacologic) I’ve used in my 30 years of practicing psychiatry. I’m thrilled and continue to teach more and more patients every week." 
Above comments from Mike Zamburean MD, a psychiatrist friend (Mike attended our April training):
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During my Near Death Experience, in Viet Nam, in 1966, it was revealed to me in a powerful flash, that I must heal all of the deeply wounded and dissociated parts of myself; and I suddenly saw the possibilities for a more peaceful, wise, compassionate and helpful (rather than destructive) me. This revelation changed the course of my life and set me firmly on the path of personal and spiritual growth, emotional healing and profound transformation. And I've been working on it, ever since.

Here is a testimonial from a client using all the Feel Free Fast methods:

"I was referred to Barry by one of my best friends. I had been through a difficult year being with my mother through her dying process, ending a very toxic relationship and having an onset of eating disorder that I thought I had battled years before.. From the moment I heard Barry's voice on the phone during our initial communication, I knew I was going to be nurtured and he was the perfect person to help me find my way back to me. And in only 10 sessions, I had built back the strength I needed to get my life back on track. I will forever be grateful to Barry for being a part of my healing process. I highly recommend him."

My wife Gayla co-created Transformational Life Coaching together with me. You can tell by reading her bio that her journey will help you immensely on yours.

Together, we've distilled the essence of all of the most successful methods we've learned, into Feel Free Fast!, a self help process that you can easily learn and quickly apply, for quick, effective and lasting results.

We’ve both been working hard on ourselves with self-help techniques and spiritual practice since the 1960s. And we’ve had the help of many master teachers. My degree’s in physics. I have to know how or why things work and test that they really do. Gayla has an extremely incisive mind that filters out BS quickly. We’ve cooked down all the methods we've tried over all those years into pure broth, the quintessential underlying pattern that all personal emotional transformation is based on. That's why we call it Transformational Life Coaching.

Although Transformational Life Coaching is a self help process, it's not possible to begin the journey completely on your own, because, as my teacher Prof. Yum Lin Rimpoche said,

"The hardest book to read is the one in our own heart."

You need a helper to anchor your attention and point out what you can not see.

The causes of all our most persistent emotional problems are deeply hidden from us, in sub-conscious suppression and dissociation. For example:

How many times have you found yourself reacting to something, before you've even had a microsecond to think about it?

How many times have you had difficulty making a decision because of conflicting thoughts &/ or conflicting feelings?

How many times have you felt something in your heart that didn't agree with the feeling in your gut, or the thoughts in your head?

The reason for these conflicting thoughts, feelings, reactions lies in your powerful, but hidden from conscious view, subconscious conditioning and patterning. Your conditioning reacts 800 times faster than you can think. You, the person you identify as, is a thought/emotion process. You feel like a real thing, but sense of independent self is just a flow of thoughts and feelings.

Your reactions are happening so fast you, the conscious mind can only observe them as they play out. You can not change them as they are happening, only after the fact. So how can you be responsible for those reactions?

Do you realize you actually have three (3!) powerful "minds" running your life?

It's complicated. Your amazing, brilliant, Conscious Mind, with which you are certainly most aware, is actually only a small part of your total story. So let's get familiar with your less obvious, but even more powerful, other parts. They are your:

Conscious Mind

Sub-Conscious Mind

High-Self Mind

You can learn all about them in our article about Your Three Minds. Also learn how we developed Feel Free Fast and about the science, Memory Reconsolidation, the key to all psychological change.

A testimonial from a client who is a MSW.

"As a social worker and participant in my own life experiences in mental health services I believed there were no "shortcuts" to healing. Barry has opened a new door for me: to look at things in new ways and help me heal my past, letting go in less time and more effectively than I could have imagined." 
LL Mendelson

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